Why?? Why can’t anyone approve the fact of being friends with you ex? WHY NOT?
I hate this compulsory “fact” which has slipped inside every single person’s brain and has made a permanent residence!!!
I always thought the other way round!
It is simple,you were friends with him,with time you both developed liking for each other,started dating! FULL-STOP.
Dating-> Fling-> Break-up.
RELATIONSHIP,is never a ‘break-up’,it just ends!
So,haw does it harm being friends with “the guy you just dated” ??
I believe,if once you’ve decided to end up terms with someone,no one can change your mind.
But if you haven’t,why treat that “guy who you JUST only dated” as enemy or even as a stranger.
Being FRIENDS would never mean cuddling with him or sticking into his lap all the while. It is just maintaining healthy friendly terms!
People,need a brainwash,and FLUSH this silly thing out of their minds,so that they never guide people like ME(who are sensible,and know their limits) and get a whole lecture,like this post. Bwahahaha. 😛