We have heard about live-in relationships,friends with benefits,one night stand,and now,it has just transformed into HOURS stand. Earlier it was done by adults,then it all jumped down to teenagers,and now as I see the time fly,I am afraid if kids in sixth grade won’t be making girlfriends,they will simply be friends with benefits! Haha.. funny I know!
But it just got me thinking,our school life was much cleaner and less cheaper then this is. Call me traditional,but there needs to be a line. A line of control. A limit. And it isn’t because we’re Indians and we are orthodox or traditional or our country has laws that do not allow sex at the age of 13. It is just about the environment and surroundings we have been brought up. I mean come on,if you step out in a bikini in here,people would kill each other to just see you,whereas in abroad they have anybody and everybody walking on the beach practically nude.
Kids,younger to me,are just so much curious for everything. This isn’t funny or aggressive or orthodox,it is just sad that they don’t understand that having sex before marriage is not OUTDATED,it is just a having a good character and wanting to belong to one person only and always. We have a different society to belong from. Adapting new ideas and cultures is a great thing,but everything has it’s own time. You need time to grow up,to have the capability to understand what things really are like.
So yes,I am traditional when I see a 14 year girl making out with a 16 year boy in the lobby of a pub,and feel SICK!
And till the time,you would come to an age like mine,20s.. probably know one would believe in love because you just got laid so easily,so early that you wouldn’t know what feelings are,or how does it even feel to be with someone.
I just read it somewhere.
“Since,SEX got easy,LOVE is hard to find.”
And this,my friends is the scenario.
|Just the way it is supposed to be.|