it takes a lot of courage to let go of the people you love,the ones you never wanted to leave, the only ones you thought are going to stand beside you, always and forever.
But let me tell you,there is nothing like ALWAYS AND FOREVER. NO.
Despite of every single fact you know, the consequences and the pain, you just need to LET THEM GO.
YOU NEED TO LET THEM GO FOR THEIR OWN GOOD.
Love and care, are the two things that can never be delivered with selfishness.
And out of everything you need this person to stay in your life, you would never want to be a barrier in someone’s life ahead, which they choose to live without you. Or be a reason for their failures and unhappiness.
Letting them go, is probably a better choice than caging somebody for your own needs. You will, later on, just end up in guilt. Because this one person you are forcing to stay along will eventually leave, today or tomorrow.
And honestly, when a person has already decided to leave the very certain things in his life for an uncertain future, which is unsure and unsafe, he definitely is aware of the risk he is going to be taking in his life ahead. And he is willing to do so, very firmly and thoroughly, with all the possibilities very well calculated.
You can never stop an individual from dreaming, aiming or making plans. And you definitely should not be the one trying to hold him back from reaching to them. Be it just the first initial step.
Things will tend to heal up with time.. And come on, it is very kind and beautiful world.
After a while, you will sure realize who was meant to be with you, and who wasn’t.
On summing this up,
FORCE, is never a way to make someone stay in your life. NEVER.