Let GO!

So you know,
it takes a lot of courage to let go of the people you love,the ones you never wanted to leave, the only ones you thought are going to stand beside you, always and forever.

But let me tell you,there is nothing like ALWAYS AND FOREVER. NO.

Despite of every single fact you know, the consequences and the pain, you just need to LET THEM GO.
YOU NEED TO LET THEM GO FOR THEIR OWN GOOD.
Because,
Love and care, are the two things that can never be delivered with selfishness.

And out of everything you need this person to stay in your life, you would never want to be a barrier in someone’s life ahead, which they choose to live without you. Or be a reason for their failures and unhappiness.

Letting them go, is probably a better choice than caging somebody for your own needs. You will, later on, just end up in guilt. Because this one person you are forcing to stay along will eventually leave, today or tomorrow.

And honestly, when a person has already decided to leave the very certain things in his life for an uncertain future, which is unsure and unsafe, he definitely is aware of the risk he is going to be taking in his life ahead. And he is willing to do so, very firmly and thoroughly, with all the possibilities very well calculated.

You can never stop an individual from dreaming, aiming or making plans.  And you definitely should not be the one trying to hold him back from reaching to them. Be it just the first initial step.

Eventually,
Things will tend to heal up with time.. And come on, it is very kind and beautiful world.
After a while, you will sure realize who was meant to be with you, and who wasn’t.

On summing this up,
FORCE, is never a way to make someone stay in your life. NEVER.

13 Comments Add yours

  1. Amrit Sinha says:

    Time heals all wounds, and we learn to live in a new way. Habits are difficult to change, but they do change 🙂

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  2. pravir says:

    Yes force is never a way to make someone stay in your life but you know 'Love' and 'Care' aer words which may force to make anyone stay forever in your life.I think Let go is not a perfect solution for every thing.

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  3. Sakshi Singh says:

    So true Amrit. Time heals everything. And with time, we tend to gradually keep the past in this corner of our head and move ahead in life.

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  4. Sakshi Singh says:

    See Pravir, my only point in this post is when a person is ready to leave, despite of all the love and care, he sure doesn't think of it as a priority. Right?
    And when, you tend to make a person stay in a relationship along with you in the name of love and care which clearly are not his priority, you have to let go, because fighting for it is clearly forcing.

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  5. shonazee says:

    Very true . You can try to cage a person , but not forever . Letting go is sometimes all that we can do , even if it hurts , even if it tears to apart , because who wants to stay will and who doesn't just won't . beautiful post Sakshi 🙂

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  6. shonazee says:

    even if it tears our heart apart *

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  7. Sakshi Singh says:

    Exactly, Shonazee! I am so glad that you and I so definitely share same thoughts and views!
    Thanks 🙂

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  9. Sakshi Singh says:

    Thank you so much for your kind words! Though, I am late to reply to this, but umm.. I am most definitely going to go through your post, seem of my interest already!
    Hope you had a good read over mine. 🙂

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  10. shonazee says:

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  11. Sakshi Singh says:

    Oh you did? I will definitely look up to it Shonazee! Thank you 🙂

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  13. Sakshi Singh says:

    I am so sorry for viewing this so late! I will definitely look up to this post, I am sure it is as beautiful as the rest!

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